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What Are the Most Important Things in Your Divorce… to You?

When you define your financial, emotional, and relational priorities from the start, you can make better decisions about which divorce process to choose, the overall settlement agreement you create, and identify what’s most needed for you long-term. When people first...

Why a CDFA® Matters: Welcome To The New Public CDFA® Website

Divorce is not only an emotional process. It is also one of the largest financial transitions you will ever face. The new public platform CDFA.com helps people understand the financial side of divorce and connect with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® professionals...

Financial Problem Solving in a Divorce: Turning Chaos Into a Plan

Divorce is rarely just a legal problem. It is a financial one that affects the rest of your life. Financial problem-solving in divorce means stepping back, clarifying what a “successful” outcome looks like for you, choosing the right process, and systematically...

Divorce Financial Mistakes People Are Still Making (and How to Avoid Them)

Divorce can create long-term financial damage if you rush decisions or overlook key details. By understanding your options, paying attention to taxes and asset values, and getting the right professional guidance, you can avoid costly mistakes and protect your...

Preparing for Divorce in 2026: Key Financial Steps to Take

If you’re considering divorce, or will be going through a divorce in 2026, don’t do it alone. Build a team of trained professionals, gather key financial documents early, and understand your legal options before you act. With recent changes in tax laws and new savings...

When Would You Need a QDRO?

A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is a legal document required to divide certain employer-sponsored retirement accounts during divorce. Use of a QDRO avoids triggering taxes or penalties. Military Pensions, Federal Pensions, and other government retirement...

Is Divorce Worse Than Death?

Divorce and death are both among life’s most traumatic experiences, and while they share similarities in emotional and financial impact, divorce brings its own unique challenges. Concerns about long term financial stability often intensifies the level of worry....

5 Tips for Budgeting After a Divorce

The word budget can feel restrictive, but really it is a roadmap for your income and expenses. After a divorce, creating a strong financial plan is one of the most important steps you can take. The first year or two will bring a lot of changes, and how you prepare...

Top 5 Early Mistakes to Avoid in a Military Divorce

A military divorce has unique challenges, and rushing in can lead to costly mistakes. Before making any big decisions, take time to get informed. Consult free legal help through the JAG, speak with experienced professionals, explore all your divorce process options,...

Going Through Divorce as a Business Owner

If you own your own business, the divorce process has an entirely different layer of added complexity. You are not just dividing up the house or negotiating time-sharing, you are dealing with an asset that may be the primary source of income for your family, your...
Divorce: What About The House?

Divorce: What About The House?

One of the most important decisions in a divorce is how to handle the house. For many couples this is the biggest asset in their family’s estate.  But before any decisions can be made it is important to gather a significant amount of background information.  This...

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Divorce and Your Retirement Funds

Divorce and Your Retirement Funds

If you or someone you know is contemplating divorce, one of the most common questions to be answered is “What’s this going to mean for my retirement funds, my pension, and my future lifestyle?”. To best answer this, start with having a clear understanding of your...

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Divorce in the Military

Divorce in the Military

If you’re a current or former member of the armed forces, chances are you’ve been trained for some of the most grueling and demanding situations out there. What that training doesn’t do, is prepare you for the challenges of a military divorce. Even for civilians,...

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Divorce Financial Advice for Men

Divorce Financial Advice for Men

What’s a man contemplating, or already in the middle of a divorce, to do?  There seems to be multitudes of services that cater to helping women during this tough time. It’s true that women may need a little more emotional support and financial education during the process if their Husband had overseen the finances during the marriage. But the family finances may not always have been handled in this manner. Men can also struggle to find appropriate divorce-related resources that they need.

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Do I Really Need a QDRO?

Do I Really Need a QDRO?

Many times… that’s a definite YES! Let’s say you find yourself in the final stretch of your divorce and you can see hope at the end of the tunnel. Perhaps you’ve reached a proposed settlement agreement with your spouse, then your Attorney or Mediator brings up, “In order to split this retirement account, you need a QDRO done and there will be a cost for that.” You may want to just scream out, “Wait, what? Are you kidding? What the heck is a QDRO?”

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A Few Common Money Mistakes in Divorce

A Few Common Money Mistakes in Divorce

For most people, the divorce process is emotionally draining and mentally exhausting. It can be a time of feeling frozen, numb, or moving in circles. But despite those feelings, you will be expected to go through your finances with a fine-tooth comb to ensure that...

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The Most Important Priorities In Your Divorce

Identify Your Priorities, Before Having Any Discussion With Your Spouse

Knowing your priorities will help you be confident in what to ask for, and what you can live without.

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